Something has been on my mind that affects everyone, has not been truly addressed by anyone, is assumed to be the job of someone, but should be resolved by each one. This is the current state of our public debate and even personal debates. It does not matter who we think is inciting it, how clearly they seem to be pushing it, or how big the problem seems to be; we can, and must, all take part in solving it.
Conversely (does linking count as advertising?) to the size of the problem, the steps to solving it can be begun in a very small way on a daily basis. It begins with how we speak and respond to overblown rhetoric. It also involves our attitude towards how others speak to us and about things that are important to us. Let me give you a personal and very recent example. Facebook, is a great place for social networking, but it can be full of pitfalls when one have a wide variety of friends and family members on it. My paternal Grandmother is on my page and has one of her own. She is an Evangelical Christian and I am an Atheist (et. all applicable labels) I shared a comment about resurrection that was to occur on Sat. the 3rd of April that started off sounding religious, but was really about Dr. Who. (because I am a major geek for the Doctor) She had a reply, but promptly removed it once she noticed the joke and the thread about it because she is not a Whovian it was not immediately apparent. Her page posted a comment questioning whether or not Atheists could get home owners coverage for ‘acts of God’ my response was simply “Country and State Farm say yes” with a wink and a smile. We have continued with these back and forth barbs on occasion, but we also are sure to reassert that we love each-other on a regular enough basis. She also managed remind me at our recent family reunion just how funny she is on a totally different subject. While we have both gone out of our way to ensure that the light manner is fairly clear, we also both make the choice not to take these things personally or as insults, because everyone has that choice. continue reading…
